While many of us avoid planning for, contemplating, and even mentioning death, Exit Stage Left: lessons in the art of dying sweeps aside the taboo and allows readers to approach their own inevitable end with a sense of curiosity and agency.
From the author’s perspective as a patient, a loved one of someone who was fatally ill, and a hospice volunteer for people at the end-of-life, Kingstone examines how the Western custom of denying death's existence fails to prepare us when it inevitably comes. These pieces run from poignant to playful to probing, sometimes in a single essay.
An astute observer of human behavior, Kingstone is analytical in some moments and darkly humorous in others. Having faced this fear herself, she is the perfect companion for this journey into the dark. She dives in where others are squeamish, showing how a full-frontal look at the finale can be liberating, motivating readers to live the days they have left with purpose and plan for an elegant departure.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Part I
Chapter 1: The Route of the Poison Ring
Chapter 2: Angel Lounge
Chapter 3: Pity Party
Chapter 4: Little Slices of Death
Chapter 5: Elements of Gothic Literature
Chapter 6: On the Ash-heap
Chapter 7: The Smile
Chapter 8: Ladies’ Pond
Part II
Chapter 9: Revolving Door
Chapter 10: Watching from the Bridge
Chapter 11: Can I Come With You?
Chapter 12: Good News About Herb
Chapter 13: The Rest is Silence
Part III
Chapter 14: Stuffed Monkey, Clashing Symbols
Chapter 15: Zooming in on a Death Cafe
Chapter 16: Helpmehelpmehelpme
Chapter 17: Ticket to the Inevitable
Chapter 18: What Elke Wants
Chapter 19: Wabi-Sabi
Chapter 20: Exit Stage Left
Chapter 21: Pressure Points